A little history... When I was young, my grandmother would take me to the old cemeteries in the small south Georgia towns nearby, sometimes to "visit" our relatives but mostly just to look around, reading the headstones and admiring the beautiful sculptures. And some big history... About 200 years ago, cemeteries started to be designed as strolling gardens--places for the living as much as the dead--and the precursors to modern parks. Mount Auburn in Cambridge (which is amazing and highly recommended) was one of the earliest examples and was designed by the famous landscape architect Frederick Law Olmsted, later of Central Park (and Prospect Park) fame.
So with no hesitation and a lot of respectful interest, I often visit cemeteries, and yesterday I stopped by one of the many old examples that dot the East End. There wasn't much to the Wainscott Cemetery--just a few rows of very old headstones with some newer ones mixed in. I did learn that "Hedges" is one of the old family names in the Hamptons, though, so Hedges Lane is not named after the ubiquitous privet hedges! That, and the sharp, sulfur-colored lichens on the dull gray headstones were the most interesting elements.